Leggendo i giornali di questi giorni, dove si tratta con fin troppa insistenza del delitto di Obino, mi sovviene una frase di Gesù, ripresa nella liturgia del sacramento del matrimonio, che io rivolgo con una certain solemnity to all present:
"Nobody dares to separate what in the name of the Lord has united."
I then noted the meeting that their presence at the ceremony is not just sharing a moment of happiness, but an obligation, a responsibility to surround the new couples room with all the attention necessary to ensure that their union is durable.
Today, these words should be repeated with many other people who, during life, bring and share time and interests with married people. Unfortunately, many couples come apart because of undue interference by fellow workers and fun, do not stop the advances, knowing that they are married and - these advances - at some point become so insistent on putting the subject in front of a blackmail: either me or him (her), or at a pressure such that - as in the case cited - can lead to crime.
Such people can not be criminally prosecuted, but they are morally responsible.
I write this not to condemn, but my experience as a consultant tells me that too often couples come apart for interference of people who become more invasive when they know the person they set eyes is married.
also write for the love of family and its strength and happiness, because I've never seen a divorce without anyone - especially children - Has suffered. It is true that a consensual separation is better than a "constant struggle", but better still is an effort and a defensive strategy of conjugal love. Today it is said that in our society lacks a "culture of separation", will be true, but it would be better, a "culture of responsibility to preserve the union."
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